Sometimes we purposely misuse others by accident , but they still suffer from our actions . we then play the victim role as if the world owes us something. Life throws us many situations , some we can't afford to get out of , and some that we can block with a force much greater than us. we can either choose to go straight , or go sideways and have many issues in life . If we can play victim and hold our hand out without a legit reason for asking , then we can put that same exact energy into making better things happen for ourselves. take time to focus on doing for yourself , not asking for handouts , and become more successful in life . Life isn't always promised , but while being on earth , we can make the best out of any situation