Ladies listen to me when I say
If you're in a messed up relationship with no intention of getting away
Then please please don't come to me crying
When all you're going to do is take him back after the lying
After the cheating and after he cusses you out
After he calls you ugly and slaps you in your mouth
After the emergency visit when u lie and say u fell
Or after the 3rd time u bail him out of jail
I'm not saying don't come to me because I don't care
I'm saying don't bring that to me because I been there
Because I know how it feels to live in despair
And to wonder why is this happening life's so unfair
And then he says sorry and kisses you deep
His sex is real good and he even holds u to sleep
And it feels so damn good u can't believe
And now you'll do anything so he won't leave
But he knows this he knows you're naïve
How u love him so much and wear your heart on your sleeve
So he uses your love against you because he knows
No matter what he does what he says goes
But the abuse is not good for you or for me
It hurts to even think of those memories
Of fighting and screaming and being bruised
The memories of being physically and emotionally abused
So please don't come to me unless u plan
On finally getting away from this abusive man
Because if you're serious I'll do my best as your friend
To keep u away and help your heart mend