I had to go to the store for lettuce on that long walk home sweating bullets praying I didn't grab the cabbage it was my greatest fear it was traumatizing and caused me great anxiety I didn't see the difference between the two I wished both weren't so identical I really couldn't tell them apart now I see them together and instantly I know one from the other but why couldn't I than? my mother would be so mad at me she called me every name in the book she said your problem is "YOU DON'T LOOK"👀