what did you do today did you do what you wanted to do did you go where you want to go did you see who you wanted to see did you hear what you wanted to hear did you say what you wanted to say to who you wanted to say it to did you hear from someone you wanted to hear from can you check some of these off the list or none of the above did you accomplish them all these things are complicated for some for others it's a challenge or impossible to manage either we did didn't or wish we could