don't expect me to tell you what to do when you have no idea in mind what you should do if I tell you what I done to get through it does not mean for you to follow suit it is not me giving you instructions on how to do it's my way of telling you it can be done "I can tell you how to do it but I can't tell you how I did it" you must find your own way to get it done it's your life and your chance to shine I can show you the way but it's your path to choose road expressway and exit to take it's your lesson to learn your labour pains your bridges to burn I can point you in the right direction I can give you my opinion but your own belief will be all the sound judgement you need think about why you are doing what you are doing and what you want your outcome to be do not compare yourself to others be versatile you will never be perfect but you will be unique those who tell you they love you won't always be lovingly and don't expect them to be don't expect much from others no one is prone to or supposed to care about you not even your own mother father uncle cousin nephew niece sister or brother but don't let that change anything about you preserve your energy respect and dignity don't be surprised to see friends turn into enemies hang in there and don't fall away I can throw down stones but it will be your steps to take I can't tell you where to go if I never been there and if I have I can't go there with you it's up to you to find the way there "I can tell you how to do it but I can't tell you how I did it" your own method your own style your own manner will matter in your life expectancy if you conceived it gave birth to it it's your baby it came from your pregnancy your creativity it's a place of your nativity don't let anyone tell you differently not even struggling me