if I fumble do not hold it over my head for the rest of my life just because I fumbled that one time doesn't mean I will fumble the rest of my life a mistake is something we all make we all have mishaps not one is free from upset it's a part of the life cycle and phrase "damned if I do damned if I don't" no one has the authority to damn nor doom a soul to hell but there are some who damn well think they do then again what is the probability of gaining a second chance if three strikes you gone be out of there