TO LOVE A WOMAN

The Role of The Masculine and The Feminine

In order to gain you have to lose
The masculine gives strength and gains power
The feminine gives power and gains strength
The most powerful masculine has given all his strength away
The most powerful feminine has given all her power
Giving happens through intention
Through willing it
A masculine intends that a feminine can have the strength he has
A feminine receives the masculine strength by feeling his intention to give
And she gives back her power
She submits

MIND OR YOU

You must decide whether you control your mind or your mind controls you
This is so as to avoid falling in the trap of the cycle
In order to make this decision
You must ask yourself who you would rather be punished by
Would you rather be punished by the world
Or by your own self
This is a question you must answer
Because failure to which will result in a split consciousness
One in which the mind is the leader and you are the follower
And the other which the mind is the follower and you are the leader
It is a game in which you cannot win
You become the snake that gets nourished by eating its own tail

MIRRORS

Mirrors

The world’s worst invention

We weren’t designed to see who we are

We weren’t designed to know how we look

Animals in the jungle know all faces except their own

So who they are is how they feel not how they look

It’s the opposite for humans

They value how they look more than how they feel

So who they are is how they look

So they try to control people’s perception of them

Which is something that is not within our control

You cannot decide whether someone finds you attractive or not

No matter how much time you spend in the mirror

But you can decide how you feel

You can decide how your lip feels

How your eye feels

How your breath feels

Is it sweet

Is it pleasant

Does your voice feel good when it comes from you?

This is within your control

B...

BEAUTY AND THE BEAST

Men aren't beautiful
Men aren't supposed to be beautiful
Men are supposed to value beauty
And you can only value that which you lack
It is the rule of commerce
A man's attractiveness comes from his ability to value beauty in other humans
That's something that a woman lacks
And thus what she values
If a man can understand that a woman doesnt value his beauty
But his ability to value her beauty
He will have solved 70% of their relationship issues
And 80% of his own

When a man feels like he is unbeautiful

Then he is in his natural state

And when he owns it,

THen he is in a powerful state.

FEELING

If real is something that exists without being caused or affected
Feeling is the only real thing
Our bodies are caused and affected,
When we eat we grow
Our minds are caused and affected,
When we read and explore,our minds expand

We are alive because we feel that we are alive
Our feelings are the closest thing to who we are
How we interact with objects in our environment differs based on how we feel
How we perceive objects in the environment changes based on how we feel
A table looks,smells,touches a certain way when your happy,
and a certain way when your angry
A flower smells different when your blissful
And another way when your unpleasant
Our bodies feel different when we are full of love 
and another way when we are hateful
So does our mind

There is no such thing as no feeling
This is referred by some as stillness
And stillness is a ...

A NOTE TO ALL EMPATHS

Empaths run down their own pleasures,
this is because they find pleasure from giving it to others
They don't want to f**k,they want someone to be f***ed by them
They don't want happiness,they want someone to be happy because of them
They don't want to win, they want to win with somebody 
Empaths find pleasure by watching other people receive pleasure
By feeling others receive and embody pleasure
It is the ultimate gesture of kindness
They believe it is a gift

But it is also a curse
A curse that needs to be lifted
A curse that is their biggest challenge
And one that holds the highest reward
Because the universe rewards those who know what they want
And empaths know what other people want
So they feel indebted to give it to them
The same way the universe is indebted to give you what you want
So they live like a mirror
Like an external embodiment of oth...

SOCIAL BLISS

1. There is no such thing as group thought
   Men move like this
   Girls move like this
   Coudnt be further from the truth
   Everybody has organic,natural individual thoughts
   Each person is unique down from their breath to their fingerprints
   Each person is exraordinary in their own ordinary

2. Each person is entitled to their own opinion
   Each person has what they like and what they dislike
   To want to be liked by everybody is an unrealistic goal
   Because you only like specific things and people
   So expect the same from the others
   Its Okay not to be liked

3. You can't know what you cant perceive
   You can't change what you cant perceive
   You cant control what you can't perceive
   You can'...

ANXIETY

What is anxiety?
The fear of discomfort
The fear of change
It is a signal that you are shifting into someone else
Everybody has this feeling
How they respond to it is what differs from one person to another

There are those who love comfort
Who sit in their couches from morning to nighttime
Playing with their gadgets
Those whose life goal is satisfaction
Those afraid of death
Those who are attached to their past
Those attached to the present
Those afraid of growth
Real Growth
This way your anxiety will function as a fear
And it will be a roadblock to your change to another being

Then there are those who love discomfort
Those who shower with cold water
And run uphill in the morning
Those detached to their present selves
Whom view their present selves merely as a fraction of their true selves
And not as the whole

FEMINISTS

There are two types of feminists
The one who believes masculinity is evil
and The one who feels femininity is weak

The one who holds that masculinity is evil,
believes that men have controlled her individuality
Her freedom of thought has been put in a cage
The way she speaks and the way she expresses herself
The way she dresses, the way she thinks
Have all been bounded
She wants freedom
She wants femininity.

The one who believes femininity is weak,
is running away from vulnerability
She wants to be assertive and aggressive
She wants to lead
She never cries
She wants control
She wants masculinity.

ANGER

A man needs to tap into his physicality
He needs a safe space to embrace his primal
His aggression
His vigour
His brute strength
That space is found in activities that encourage conflict
Sports,military,martial arts
Where it is okay to let out your anger
Your war cry
Because it is healthy to be angry as it is to be happy
You cannot avoid it as it is your instinct

You need it
So manage it instead
Without this space,
conflict will arise.