how we meet who we meet some meetings we arrange we arrange to meet but for the most part we meet unexpectedly something is happening in someone's life leading up to the place of meeting someone who also went through something that lead them to the same place usually it's how we met who we met whether it be long term or a brief encounter we meet more people than we actually know why are they there why are you there what lead them there what lead you there the logical explanation is reason is always in play we are where we are for no other reason than we are there along with others who are there to like the strangers in my dreams like extras in a movie scene something that always baffles me I wake up like who are these people wondering where are they now it's so much we don't know and I guess it's best we don't regardless of how we get to the place where we meet it took a lot of steps to get there mistakes mishaps wrong turns coincidence I think not I guess we just got us a lot of unscheduled meetings to go to