we may watch a movie together but we didn't see the same movie you seen something I didn't see you got something I didn't get it made you feel a certain way it didn't make me same how can it be when we stared at the same screen at the same time but didn't see the same thing listened to every word being said but didn't hear the same words being said nor did we receive the same message it suggested we may be united joined and linked together we may be in tune on a deeper level we may even understand each other without verbal communication but if we're not wired the same how can we be connected no matter what's on the menu we bring different points of views to the table the side dish compliments the main dish adding variety to the meal