How do you perform a sendoff for someone that has lived their lives in dignity. Most of it was in the presence of people that loved them and wanted the best for them, the rest of it was lived in fear.
The other side of that equation is how do you make peace with someone that in order for them to feel like they are striving they need to have an enemy?
Even during times for peace, they are seeking the opportunity to create their greatest enemy.
So how do you do it?