First of all,
There are no Fathers where I
Live. No Husbands. No Heroes.
No Heads of Households. No
Patriarchs. No Protectors. No
Providers. Oh sure, there are
Plenty of boyfriends, babies’
Daddies and bedfellows
Here. But no Fathers.
According to news reports
And ancient scrolls of Ebony
Magazine, black men were once
Known to frequent churches,
Grocery stores, school halls
And jobs. But in my neck
Of the woods men frequent
Clubs, liquor stores, pool
Halls and jails. They say
Black men were once known
For lending their support.
Around here they’re well
Known for not paying any.
When adversity arises, when
Crisis mounts, when tragedy
Strikes, they say Fathers
Will be right there—protecting,
Providing, pressing on.
But let adversity arise around
Here. Let tragedy strike near
These brothers. And watch them
Run. Watch them head for the
Hills. And Mama? Poor Mama.
She has to look those kids
In the face everyday and explain
To them why Daddy is gone.
But don’t you go fretting
None about Mama. Mama will
Be just fine. Mama’ll bounce
Back fast as lightening
And twice as strong. Mama
Will find herself a man who
Will act like he is the Father
Of her children although
He isn’t. For a while, anyway.
And should he fail her
Like those others, leaving her
On the doorstep of love,
She’ll carry on—Sojourner
Truth of her times, Moses
At the mighty sea—leading
Her clan to a land promised
But seldom seen. Oh sure,
There are plenty of boyfriends,
Babies’ daddies and bed-
Fellows here. But Fathers?
We don’t carry those.
Copyright © 2014 by Curtis W. Trent